My ex and I broke up two months ago. We dated over a year and lived together through most of that. We broke up due to trust issues on my part and frankly she bailed because she's a little immature.
Since she's moved, she's only moved stuff once a week, she got in a car accident after two weeks but had friends bring her over and she could have gotten all of her stuff before then. She left her cat because her roommate's cat was in heat. She hasn't picked him back up, I told her she should just keep him here, but she wanted to take him but never got him.
She was under my insurance and was asked multiple times to change it but didn't want to till the car was fixed. I took her off but she still owes me money and every time I ask her to pay me she either obliges and says she will or yells at me about keeping the cat. She also told me that she changed her mailing address but has not done that. She took some of my things "on accident" including a dirty shirt of mine. She basically took everything of hers, except for a few small things.
We haven't talked in a few weeks but she would randomly ask me about grabbing stuff that she already took or coming to grab something. But then wouldn't ask again after I didn't respond. Basically asking questions she knew the answer to. My roommate has found her on tinder, but I assume she's getting lonely and needs attention.
Is she testing me? Does it seem like she thinks about coming back? Of course she's stringing me along but I would like to hear from someone who's been on both side of the situation. Obviously she's playing games
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Maybe you're "familiar" & it's comforting to talk to you because your bf/gf IS your best friend.. And you were always there for her before. Sometimes when people feel down in the dumps or lonely, just hearing from someone familiar helps. She probably misses you too, so she snatched your stuff and leaves stuff of hers behind so there's an excuse to contact or see you.0
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