So... This is my third "real" break-up...
And again the idiot starts ignoring me...
I lived with this guy for half a year, and it KILLS me that he doesn't have ANY respect for me at all...
He broke it off over the phone while I was on vacation, all my stuff where at his dads, so he threw them all out on the street and when I arrived he sat in a car and was like: "Here's your stuff, I gotta go"..
We go in the same class, and he's such a douch!
Just yesterday he asked my friend if I was seeing anyone..
"Because I want to be the first one to find a new girl"
As if he hasn't fucked up enough for me?
WHY ARE GUYS SO STUPID?
Why are guys such douchebags?
So... This is my third "real" break-up...
What Guys Said 17
why are guys so stupid? I think the question is why are the guys you seem to come across so "stupid"?
I think typically in these cases, frequent relationships with bad guys, there is an underlying trend that we can identify. I'm not trying to say it's your fault, but try reflecting on the similarities among the guys you've dated and maybe consider a new strategy in terms of meeting and dating guys. maybe change what you look for or at least be aware of signs that guys you are meeting may be similar to guys you've dated in the past1
You attract, and are interested in, dirtbags. It isn't all guys, it's just the guys you pick out of the guys interested in you.
If someone doesn't respect you, you can't teach them to respect you without changing who they are. Are you willing to put in the time to do that, knowing that he's likely to grow to hate you for it?
Find a man who by default respects people. He'll respect you. A quality guy doesn't need to be taught to respect you. He does it without asking, without an excuse or any reason, no ulterior motive. He doesn't want anything in return for being nice to you, because being nice is just what you should do.
You are attracted to douchebags. You look at all the guys who like you, and pick the douchebags over the nice guys.1
well i could ask the same questions
Why the bad guys always get a good gril?
Why the girls always seems easily striked by tricks?
Why a tendency toward violence's character so attractive to the girls, does it got something to do with insecurity?
Does it take to be superman or psychiccer to have a nice girl?
Why this can't be predictable, i should knew this is going tohappen, how silly im?
i really think you should spread out your social boundaries, to see the world with different perspective, to meet plenty of stranger, to stop chasing the dead end, to pervent narrowing down your mind, to have a new life.
He sounds like an asshole, be happy he's gone, you dodged a bullet.
And not all guys are like that, I assure you - not that I've dated guys before.1
Funny that he's the one to blame, but you picked him and put up with it for so long.3
Sounds like you are picking the wrong ones. Maybe look at the image you portray and the class of guy you are attracting.
Not all guys are like this. There must be a reason he's breaking up if he's not leaving you for someone else. He sounds angry. There must be a reason.1
If you're dating guys who treat you with no respect and generally treat you poorly, then you clearly need to evaluate why you are attracting and getting into relationship with such low quality guys. It's easy to label all guys as being the same, but that thought process is simply going to lock you in a vicious cycle.
It's easy to point the finger outwardly towards others instead of realizing that we may well our own worst enemies at times.2
I agree and have no idea. It must run somewhere in the gene pool. -.- Right next to the Neanderthals jafeel?0
Cuz you a bitch lolololol
But yeah I agree with you on some point, I didn't like hanging out with other dudes as often because most of them we're compete shitheads. That seems to have changed a bit in college, but only a little bit.0
Because I was born this way.0
Well that's a bit of a generalisation, it sounds like he was hardly in the finest class of man.0
We r sew stoopid, show us boobies!0
Why are guys such douchbags? Because women are such bitches. Simple.0
Here's a tip you've probably heard before. DON'T DATE ASSHOLES.
I know it seems obvious but clearly women like you have not taken the message to heart.
If you want a guy who treats you nice, date a nice guy, not an asshole.3
Not all guys are like that. I would never do shit like that. Ladies please stop generalizing all men as the same because you had a douche as a boyfriend. Its kinda insulting to the guys that aren't like that. You just got a immature dipshit and im sorry take it as a lesson learned and next guy you talk to make sure he is the complete opposite.1
What Girls Said 3
Not all are douche bags, there are just those certain ones like your ex that makes its seem like they all are :)
Him saying that he wants to be the first one to find a new girl, sounds very childish tho, just ignore him and go on with your life, you can do so much better!5
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Not all are douchebags, don't generalize, you just had the bad luck to run into one that makes it seem like that :) He seems rude and childish, so just ignore him and deal with your life. I'm sure you'll find another guy that will be lucky to have you. You dodged a bullet with this one3
in the future there will be even more douchebags, sit and watch. this is what women have done, not men.1
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