I never thought I would ask a question like this. But I just saw something on my fathers computer that makes me question his faithfulness to my mom?

I saw he was looking at escort services for where he will be going to on thursday, and Im kind of freaking out right now, like big time, Im asking my older sister what should we do but I honestly don't know what to do, my mom once told me if he ever was unfaithful she'd divorce him him very quick. And for anyone who will ask it wasn't pop ups it was a page he looked up. I know im going to tell my mom but how do I handle this after all of this drama starts

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I have confronted him and he was lying through his teeth saying it was just out of an email, and I asked him why he googled it than and he's like It was an email.

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  • So sorry to hear this. I can only speak for myself. I would confront my dad first. Have your sister present. Be prepared for retaliation and denial. Don't jump into telling her just yet. Seek a professional's advise before approaching her. When she finds out your family life will change for good. She might divorce but it might take some. She might need to pull herself together first.
    Regardless of what happens know that you two are in NOWAY responsible for you dad's actions. It's between your parents. Maintain your roles as kids they are still your parents. Stay strong and try to detatch yourself emotionally somehow when the roof caves in.

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What Girls Said 3

  • dude your mom deserves to know the truth

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  • Wow.. if i were you i would talk to your dadfirst see whats up with him. Thats a very though situation thou :( i hope everything works out for the best.

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  • Disgusting father that you have that would destoy his family cuz of sex. You should tell him this

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  • That's Sad, Well If You Plan On Telling Your Mom Expect Drama & Possible Verbal Abuse, Stay Strong, Hope Nothing Extreme Happens (Violence Wise) ...

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    • well my dad isn't strong he's pretty weak so if that happens I'll be able to protect my mom and myself

  • So you want your parents to divorce? That seems mean.

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    • well if your father was cheating on your mom and you knew it what would you do, of course im going to tell my mother, I don't want them to divorce my mom warned him if he had ever done anything like this they would be done

    • I'd talk to him, I wouldn't tell the person that swore to divorce.

      Like I said, it sounds like you want them to split up.

  • 1. Talk to him straight up man to man.
    Dad I saw this. I wasn't trying to spy but it popped up when... I wanted to talk to you man to man. What's the deal?

    Dad:I've been doing this to your mom. She just (whatever excuse)
    Have you talked to her? Does she know. You need to tell her. I don't appreciate being in this position. This is not the man you've raised me to be.
    Please get help. I want our family to make it.

    Dad:I can't do that.

    You need to tell her. Just like u made me... (Take responsibility when). If you don't I need to.

    2. Look for charges that match companies name... But like others said if you're shopping you're buying

    Good luck

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    • He said it was a email but then why would he google it and go on their website of a place he will be going to tomorrow

    • Follow him. Get evidence.

    • if i didn't have class and didn't have to follow him for 180 miles then i might

  • as a guy who uses escorts myself i can tell you a guy doesn't look up escorts unless he's going to be hireing one. and escort means sex in case your unsure

    i dont envy your situation bro

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