This isn't a boyfriend break up. It's a best friend break up. I'm a girl. And am super nice but super shy. I met this girl and we hit it off so well she became my first best friend. I'm 20 and was always bullied bc I was shy. I never had any friends. Everything was so well we got along it was great. We made so many plans for the future then things started getting rocky and she was using me. And ended up saying were not friends. This is so hard for me bc I only have one other friend. And even this one. It's not the same. She disagrees with me. And it doesn't feel right. And this other girl. I told her we don't need to be mean to eachother when we see eachother. But she doesn't want that. She's so rude to me now. And I don't know what I did wrong. I'm super shy and I'm so scared I'm never gonna find that type of friendship where you just hit it off and everything goes together. Bc before the rockiness happened. The year and a half was amazing. Now I just feel empty inside and I'm forced to realize she's not coming back. She got what she wanted and she's gone. But we see eachother at hockey games a lot. So 1 how do I deal with this awkwardness of seeing her all the time. And acting like strangers when we know everything about eachother. And 2 how do I deal with the feeling of never getting another good friend before that all happened. Bc I'm soooo shy and was bullied so much that it's hard for me to meet friends. Will this type of friendship ever happen to me again?
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There Is Nothing You Can Do To Fix This If She Is Being Mean To You, You Just Have To Accept The Loss & Learn From This. Some People Out In The World Are Cold Hearted & Mean & Dont Take People's Feelings Into Consideration, Just Ignore Her & Live Your Life, Stop Tryna Be Friends With Her. You Will Find Another Friend Eventually So Dont Give Up...0