I need people's views on how to get over someone. For me, it's been a significant period of time, 4 years to be exact and I'm still heartbroken. I'm doing better than 4 years ago obviously, but there are still moments where I feel the crippling emotional pain that I did back then. I'm not really interested in other people, and if I am it doesn't last long at all, not long enough to pursue anything. I feel like I look for him in everyone and I'm drawn to things that remind me of him.
I feel like I'll never really be 'me' again. Is there anything I can do to get over him?
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Maybe get professional help? You might be obsessed with the whole thing and closure is not something easy to get. Maybe find someone who kicks out of it, new bf or sth? if you're not ready for that (and trust me, that's ok even if it's taking that long), have you tried talking to your close friends about it?1