It was all fine and we dated 4 months but then when the honeymoon phase ended he just got distant and I broke up with him because of lack of communication and I couldn't shake the rebound idea. It was scaring me.
and surprise, he's dating someone else now! (two weeks later)
I'm just feeling blue because I thought I meant something to him and he told me things he rarely told ANYBODY and a lot of personal stuff. but i dont know. he said he really wanted us to last and such, but then I got paranoid about being a rebound and dumped him.
I wanna try to talk to him again once the no contact period ends (it's been about 10 days) because we were good friends but I also felt like I was used to fill a void and so are all of his girlfriends. but at the same time I feel like the breakup was irrational.
how do I get over him? and how should i approach him again after NC?