- best thing to do after a break up
- worst thing to do
- it helps you get over your ex
- it doesn't do anything
Most Helpful Girl
Well similar to her, I hooked up with a guy about a month after I split with my ex of 3 years. I was extremely heartbroken, but also felt extremely disgusted that I hooked up with a guy. I realized that getting over a breakup isn't about hooking up with the nearest guy who gives you attention. It's about being able to move forward and work on yourself. What does it say about her? That she was looking for an easy way out, a way to put a bandage on her wounds. It's never that simple. Wish I knew what I know today. Would've saved me a lot of heartache.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
Break Ups are hard, and different for everyone. She may have been right in telling you that she just lost interest it happens. There could be other reasons that maybe she's not ready to tell you and may never will. I got dumped about 4 months ago. It sucked I was crushed I was even considering asking her to marry me this Christmas but I guess it wasn't meant to me. At least it doesn't look like that now... Maybe in the future we'll cross paths again.
The first few weeks I didn't feel like doing anything, then I starting going out hanging with friends. An old ex called called me up and have had this friends with benefits thing going on, and I can tell you that Personally IT DOES NOT HELP. I thought it would, but it didnt. It still doesnt; there are times when I still think about my ex. I feel like calling her but I dont. She has reached out a few times, the next day I would reach out and she completely goes cold saying she was confused, still needs time to think about things. So because of that I haven't called her, wrote her, or anything. About a month or so ago she blocked me from Facebook. I figure if she wants to talk she will reach out to me. Maybe its the wrong approach but I dont want to bother her.
I dont know if my ex has been with anyone but I wouldn't want to know. I think it would hurt to think of her with someone else. Even though I know its going to happen, she's a great girl and deserves to be happy. In your case maybe your ex thought it would help, maybe she was was looking for something to do or take her mind off things. But I dont think anyone could stay with someone for 5 years and not care about the relationship.
Keep your up. In my recent experience with a break-up find things you like to do and go do them. Dont wait around expecting her to call you have to enjoy your time.
I think TIME really is the best thing for a break up.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE