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Hmmm... it sounds like she's either unsure of how she feels -or- she's sort of being a player. Why don't you tell her that you don't like this in-between thing that you two have going on and that it would be best for both of you to make a decision once and for all. Tell her that you want to be with her but that she either needs to be with you or you two have to stop contacting each other so you can move on. <---- so YOU can move on. You're putting this girl's feelings first, and the way you talk about her is really, really sweet... but you seriously need to put your mental health first. Tell her you want to know what she wants to do in like... x days. Choose a specific deadline, do NOT leave it open-ended.
If she chooses you, YAYAYAY! :D
If she doesn't choose you, well that sucks but you WILL get over her. Trust me, I crushed on the same dude for like 4 years and never thought I'd get over him... Well, I'm over him lol. Took a while, but time really does fix everything.
If she says "i want to be friends, i don't want to lose you," tell her that's unfortunate but friendship isn't on the table.
Best of luck dude. I hope you feel better soon. I remember you from a while back, you seem like an awesome dude. If I were your age, I'd totally try to date you :p
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