I have known this guy for couple of weeks
we like each other alot.. so he asked first weather i have a bf.. then we chatted a lot then.. he confesses being a flirt and asked me to be his gf.. and asked me if i have been kissed before !
Am 23 he's a bit older..
i like him a lot but didn't like the fact that he flirts with other women.. so i never give the relationship a chance and broke up with him
Then i realized i miss him and want to be with him if he stopped the flirting part with other girls
So contacted him after 2 days saying i miss him and sorry for not giving him a chance.. but here is the shock he told me that he just wanna be friends now
i cut off contact for a week now and miss him a lot !!!
Problem is i don't know what to do to make him come back.. do i make him jealous by lying and say am dating a new guy or just stay in the nc period or what?
We have been only together for few days a week with nc is too much and im afraid he would move on and date other girl
What to do am really depressed !!
Most Helpful Girl
You have said a mouthful here, sweetie, answering your own questions about the newbie in Question: Flirts with other women... He just wanna be friends now.
So here you Are, Missing the Kissing, and knowing all along, which I am sure you have had plenty of free time to think about it, that if you and him were to get back together tomorrow, Things would be what they are, no soft touch about it, Being friends, nothing more and with his sweet on the other girls, the Show would Then Continue, with you on the sidelines. Ask yourself: Is this what you want?
No matter how you slice the sweet cake in this case, as his 'Friend,' not even on his arm, you Most likely would be seeing More than you bargained for with a guy like this. 'Move on' Or Not----He would be dating other girls, like it or 'Not.'
'Nc' is best with a player such as this. You're just asking for trouble, you'll end up even more 'Depressed' than you feel right now, and believe me, nipping this little Early bloomer Now before it has begun to bud, is far better than ending up down the line Later With----More of a broken heart.
Good luck. xx1