Most Helpful Guy
I think it was the right decision. You handled it very well. He needs some time to sort himself out. He's going through a divorce, his wife left him for a woman (that in and of itself would leave any man confused and shatter his confidence), he want to be with you and talk to other women (he probably needs to reaffirm to himself that he can still be attractive to women) and he has friends telling him that he's not ready yet. He's going to need more than six months to sort this all out and decide what he wants to do.
Most Helpful Girl
I think it was the right decision to let him go. If you have strong feelings for him and he's just not there the same way you are right now, it's not going to work out. He's probably kind of emotionally unstable right now since he's going through a divorce and probably needs time to not jump into another serious relationship yet.