How to heal from a narcasistic/manipulation/controlling/used/deceitful relationship? When you loved the person, but they never loved you but they loved to control you , then when they couldnt do that , they threw you away.
Im only now realizing this was how it was. It was a lie. A man in sheeps clothing that was a wolf. I never got a chance to show him how hurtful he was to me, cause I was brain washed. Now after everything is done. My eyes are truly opening. But I feel like I need to tell me what he did to me. But he would never listen since absusers never think they've done anything wrong or won't admit it or something I'm not sure. But what do I do, please help me. I feel like I'm dieting inside.
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I am so proud of you that you got out of that relationship. I experienced one similar to it and to be honest nothing could make me feel better other than time. It feels so much better now that I am single. You must feel so free and refreshed right now. If you feel as though you will ever go back to being with him just keep thinking about all of the negative things the relationship brought you. Not even the positives.
Immerse yourself in activities and you have to confront yourself about you feelings revolving around who you once were. Building stones and ignoring your past self will only make it worse. So I strongly recommend confronting yourself, even if it involves a lot of heartache and low self esteem because you feel as though you are a nit wit and stupid.
There will always be that fear for future relationships but just keep reminding yourself that not one single person is the same. Of course there are going to be controlling people like that, but there are also good people out there.
I hope you feel a lot better. Experiences strengthen an individual for future. So from this, hopefully you learn to always be a strong independent individual. Feel free to message me if you need help :)1