I'm not convinced that someone who likes you can be so bitter, cruel and mean on a near constant basis. Once in a while I loose my temper and get sarcastic to try and make a point but typically I try to be nice, supportive and caring. Lately I have backed away and am no longer trying to talk to this person. I heard a rumor they might be moving and I wonder if to say hi and make amends or just let it end in silence. Also just to make things clear, our friendship wasn't always like this, we used to mutually care about one another. Thoughts.
It's a complicated situation, I have a friend that loves and also hates me. I'm not sure if that can be called a friend though because?
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With the War of the Roses 'Constantly day in and day out, it's looking bleak from where I am standing, and to put it Mildly, it's Not looking Sunny And-----Most likely never will.
Don't let her rain on your parade anymore. People like this are downers, real bummers, and can't even be considered a 'Friend' indeed,' but a Fair weather friend Instead, my friend. They use you for a scape goat to vent their feelings and emotions out on, and even at times, make you ride their pity wagon to keep you strung along.
If you find out for certain she is leaving, do the 'Neighborly' thing. Wish her good luck, maybe give her a quick hug, and with always trying to be 'Nice, supportive and caring,' you have nothing to lose, not even sleep, but maybe a friend who never appreciated you for what you were, taking terrible advantage of you, and Never seeing you for the guy who was the best damn friend she will ever know, no matter where she moves to.
Good luck. xx0
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If you feel your heart cannot rest until you make amends, then maybe you should. But I can't guarantee that it would go well. But I don't think you should make amends with the aim of getting close to this person again - I think you should minimise contact with them because it sounds like they would only hurt you more if you tried to be friends again.0
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