So my friend and her ex had a relationship full of ups and downs and I wouldn't say they got along with each other, but they both wanted each other for a long time. She had told something about purging to him, but after that they stopped talking because things happened. He hurt her very much, and I guess so did she.
Her ed cause her a heart attack and she died yesterday. I don't know what to do. I'm devastated and on top of that, our friends insist that we tell her ex. Should we tell him? It's been like a year since they last talked to each other. I don't know what he has been thinking of her. Do you think he needs to know? What would you think/feel if you were him?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you should tell. He should have a chance to mourn even though he may have done wrong. In the end they used to love each other.
What a sad situation. Wish everyone lots of strength and courage in these difficult times.0
Most Helpful Girl
i am so sorry for your loss!!! i think you should talk to him bc as the others girl he was a part of her life her last love so he needs to know and attend to the funeral! but you need to tell him in a way like not blame him bc if you do then i dont know how he will be a able to cope with it... again i am so sorry!0