My husband has told me he's unhappy. I'm going to be returning home from vacation soon and I'm not sure I want to make love to someone who told me he wasn't sure if our marriage will work out or not.
He said we'll work on it but can't guarantee any certain outcome.
Am I wrong for not feeling comfortable making love to him now? Why would I just give my body to someone who isn't happy in our marriage? Why shouldn't I?
I'm so hurt and confused. We just had a baby and I do suffer from post partum depression so I've been a little rocky lately but I gave him sex regularly (a few times a week) and have done things for him I never thought of doing.
We've only been married 2 years. I'm a mess. I don't want him leaving us, but if he wants to, I don't want him just using my body for his pleasure, you know? But I miss him and I can't wait to be home. I want to make love to him so badly but I don't want to have meaningless sex.
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Firstly, take a step back. Of you are dealing with ppd, he very well could be unhappy because of that. I know when I had ppd, my partner was unhappy as well. I think you guys could greatly benefit from talking things out. If you want to be intimate with him, go for it. It isn't meaningless sex, He lives you and you two had a baby together!0
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