So I lost my girlfriend of a year that I loved a lot. I stopped being sweet and affectionate and eventually and grew more cold.. Eventually she broke up with me because I had failed to change. I don't even know why I was mean. Could be the distance as it was a LDR..
Anyway long story short, she ended up talking to some other guy a week after break up. She met him after break up I'm pretty certain of it. Or it could be an old friend but for sure wasn't talking to him when we were together.
Anyways, I tried reaching out after a month of No Contact and she flat out ignored me. She said she'd love to catch up and wanted to remain friends before the NC period but now decided to ignore me? I don't know what to do. I love her still and want to try again but she seems to be busy with that other guy..
How do I win her back? I don't wanna give up.
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds like she may be trying things with this new guy, so she feels uncomfortable staying in contact with an ex when she's developing a new relationship.
Did you apologize for treating her poorly?
Have you tried telling her you want her back, or have you just contacted her acting like friends?
If you want her back, TELL HER.
And then there's nothing else to do, the ball will be in her court.
Best of luck!2
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