Had been seeing this girl for five months, but we didn't become official until our third month. Well after er were official everything went downhill. I wasn't allowed to hang with friends unless I told her first especially when there was even one other girl hanging with us. She wanted to know where I was and what I was doing all of the time. I could talk to other girls even if they were just friends without her around. The list goes on and on. Finally I got tired of it, dumped her, and told to stay the hell away from me. I don't think she listens very well because it's been four and a half months since I dumped her and she still has not gotten the hint. No matter how many times I block her she's always texting my from some new number. Just last month is was my birthday and she had brought a cake to my apartment. I wasn't home at the time so she left it with me roommates. When I came back and they told me who it was from I immediately chucked it into the trash. Now today I've discover she has started a rumor that we're back together. This bitch is driving me insane. Can someone actually be this obsessed? I've tried getting a restraining order, but was told I didn't have enough cause for one.
Most Helpful Girl
Sorry dude, this person is a yandere, I have dealt once with this type. The good point of this could be that she is not a good close friend neither of one of your family members nor of your friend circle so the next thing can help you even though it is going to be very cruel and rough.
Give her the cold shoulder. Change your mobile phone or tell to the people with whom you are leaving with that if she calls, that you don't want to talk to her, and that they should tell her that, tell her to get lost instead of making excuses for you.
Don't feel guilty and don't let anyone else to make you feel that way (even if there is a party in her favor outside of your house with candles and songs pleading to return with her), just think that she has looked for it, to be treated like trash. In the end you won't be the villain, because you have tried to reason with her first, but she guided you to treat her like that.0
Most Helpful Guy
Just ignore her and one of two things will happen. She will either eventually get tired of it when she finds someone else to harass, OR, she'll start getting crazier and blowing up your phone and coming by your apartment like she did with the cake. When THAT happens, then you'll have enough evidence to warrant a restraining order or other action.
Save ALL texts from her, save call logs of every time she's tried to call, and if she starts coming by your place start documenting the day and time.1