We been together foe 5 years. We broke up a month and half ago. He really misses me and my dog but yet he has a girlfriend which I find weird, because I would think he would rather spend time with her then to be around me or even think about me in that matter. He says maybe in the future we'll date when he heads back to the island. But then he switches his mind that he just wants to be friends. I'm so confused. What are your thoughts on this?
Why does my ex boyfriend want to see me and my dog so bad? We only broke up a month and half ago?
What Guys Said 2
Yup, you're the option. A new girlfriend after a month coming from a LTR is not a good thing. She is a rebound and will get burned by this guy. He still has feelings for your and is hoping by seeing you that you also have feelings for him.
My opinion is to avoid meeting him at all costs to keep your sanity. Six weeks is not long enough to get over 5 years. As the crazy woman from the 90's workout videos used to say, "stop the insanity!"1
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the gf is just a rebound basically he shouldn't expect 2 much from it... after 5 years of being with some1 going form that to being alone the best way is to jump back in and a rebound date the first person u can and see what happens LOL... he's still attacked to u though... i recommend for both ure sakes close all contact for a long while and if he comes back and u bump into him in the streets start talking again... it takes time to heal form a relationship and after a breakup remaining friends isn't such a good idea unless heir really important to u and even then it might be kinder to let them go w/o hard feelings and try again in a few years...0
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