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His mom died so he may not be thinking straight and very emotional. Perhaps he feels like a sh*t for treating you this way, and he knows you are upset. What he did was wrong. He may have needed the break up for whatever reason, but he broke your heart. Send him an email or text and suggest a time to come and get his stuff. That gives him permission to come to your home. You have a right to be angry, but you don't have to be mean. Maybe when you are together he will share more of what is going through his head.