Boys, why do you do it?
What Guys Said 9
Most of the time you'll find a deep psychological reason behind it. Most of the time guys do bad things is because its done to them: cheated or even family problems of a sorts.
One of my favorite quotes: "When great love is lost, something inside a man dies... and the only he can do is run away". Boys are just as vulnerable as girls are because at a certain point girls expect it, boys don't because "girls are not commonly supposed to cheat" and when it does happen, he thinks "Why did it happen to me?" and forgiveness is almost impossible.
Its sad because it happens to so many boys that make them sour and "cheat without any care".
I know from experience but I've never cheated on a girl. I'll never put her in that pain.
But most guys don't think like that, they feel a need of revenge to the "female" group.
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There are multiple reasons men and women will cheat. It is not usually because they think their partner can handle it but due to deeper issues. People will cheat if they are being ignored or unsatisfied or hurt or scared or angry or emotionally not supported.
Asides the cases of pure lust based ego rides a large portion of cheating requires the 'victim' to be part of the problem. Cheating isn't always about doing it because you can but it is often a symptom of a problematic relationship which is the responsibility of both partners to attend to if you wish it to be healthy and not lead to cheating.
We cheat for lots of reasons. Your heart and whether it can take it, never enters our minds, so it has no impact on the decision.
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