So me and my ex broke up after awhile of trying to get her back I told her not to contact me unless she wanted to work it out. Didn't talk to her for a week and she text me yesterday saying I had mail at her house. I didn't text her back and just told her brother to bring it to me. Should I have text her? was she just looking to talk to me?
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Many times because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't Make up and that it is: Goodbye, my love. And with an 'Ex,' who Marks an X in your heart, such as Yours, more times there are motives for wanting to be in one another's lives. Apparently yours isn't a Friends with benefits factor, which is a bit unusual. I have found here, more times than often, it's the girl who wants to Reunite with all the trimmings but it's the guy who just wants to chew the fat and get it on with no hooked at the hip.
You played hard to Get, which I find admiral. You are sticking to your guns, are not going to go down any other path, and until she comes to your Tough love terms anything else would be just down A-----Beaten path. You did alright, cowboy.
Perhaps she just wanted to See you, Make idle chatter, tell you how much she hopes you are doing okay And blah, blah, blah. However, that is most likely as far as it would have went. I say this because if it were Anything But This, she would have text you to come to dinner and talk, not just to Pick up------Old news.
Good luck. xx0