- Change my behaviour
- Tell her that I can't be her friend
Most Helpful Girl
If your intentions with her are purely romantic and you in no way want 'just friendship' then begin to cut ties! It's most likely that she just sees you as a friend. I'm not saying that feelings can't change, but in the long-run, its not good to put yourself in a situation where what both of you want is so different from the other. The best way is usually to just start pulling back. Answer her texts less and less, give shorter responses, etc ect. She will eventually get the hint and you will begin to become less invested.