I met a girl from Romania 8 months ago. From the night we met we said we loved each other. In the past 8 months we have talked everyday for many hours a day. We called each other soul mates and things like that. We talked about marriage and our future together and even had started making plans to move in together. She had broken up with her previous boyfriend about 8 months before she met me. At the beginning of our relationship she had pictures of them hanging in their cabinet, but a few months into our relationship she burned them. I visited her in June for 2 weeks, it was the best time of my life. About 2 weeks ago she met her ex. He said all these things about he wants to talk and just make things civil between them. She was honest with me and I thought it was a good idea because she had a lot of hatred when she would talk about him. She always said how stupid he was when the past would come up in conversation, and how much happier she is with me. About a week ago she went to a party with some of her friends. She came home and called me on Skype and she was crying and very drunk. She lied and said she met him but he had been rude and thats why she was crying. I thought it a bit strange but I believed her. She told me today she had sex with him. She begged me to forgive her saying she was very drunk and it was a mistake and she wants to be with me. She said she did it to spite him (which made no f*cking sense to me). I feel like my heart is bleeding. I love her, but I told her I can't be with someone I can't trust. She asked to keep in touch so I said we could over email. Then her parents (who really liked me) called and said how sorry they are and to give her a second chance. I have had many problems in the past few years before I met her, with drugs and depression. I told them it would poison me and make me hate myself to stay with her because I am so shocked and hurt so deeply. Am I doing the right thing? I really loved her but god...
Most Helpful Girl
i think you should give her another chance just bc she was drunk.. and the fact that she called you while she was drunk shows me that she felt really bad about it and regretted it.. it depends though.. if you feel like what you had was something really strong and beautiful and you dont want to lose it then give it another try but put your rules.. if you feel like you will never be able to forget her or trust her again then you should try and forget her and move on:)0
Most Helpful Guy
She probably does like you, but you could only satisfy the mental side and not the physical side. Unfortunately, her will and self control is not strong enough to handle a long distance relationship. It's up to you how you want things to happen.
One of my girlfriend moved to New Orleans while we were together and after almost a year after she left she found herself emotionally liking 2 people...0
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