Most Helpful Guy
"Everyone tells me I could do so much better, even his best friend "
Then they're probably right.
Why do you want him back? You just wrote a small novel on all the pain he has caused you. Stop trying to win him back and focus your attention on YOU. Start living life one day at a time and the pain will go away. All the time you waste sulking over him (when he's obviously over you) an opportunity could go right by your face.
Most Helpful Girl
Seems like this push-pull tactic of his is a way for him to gain control over the direction of the relationship and your emotion. I know you want him back but I'd say let it go. If anything, it's the emotional void you need to fill, not him, which is often the hardest part about breaking up.
There was another post an break-ups. It has some good advice on moving on. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1162075-yesterday-a-3-year-relationship-of-mine-ended-now-i-m-trying-to