i still cared for my recent ex when I broke up w him and I still do. I just had to break up with him because I knew in the long run we did not want the same life and I realized it had to end.
It was SO hard to break up-it hurt him and I felt SO guilty it was unbearable. Plus, now I am so lonely and missing him like crazy. and I think he is lonely too and misses me.
But it just had to end.
I sometimes wished he would dump me so this way I would not have to worry anymore.
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No it's not harder. It's probably easier because you see it coming. Imagine two people love each other a lot. Then one suddenly gets dumped. It's asif you get slammed into a wall when it happens.
Also why did you think it wouldn't work out in the end? Because that seems like an easy statement to make.