Why is my ex-boyfriend sending mixed signals about friendship?
What Guys Said 1
He's sending mixed signals because there hasn't been enough time apart since the break up, thus not allowing him to come to terms with the break up properly.
Give it some time, and don't have too many expectations. Remaining friends is indeed hard for most.0
What Girls Said 1
he just told you whats going on in his mind "it's kind of difficult to be friends". i cannot tell you how much i relate to this. exact same situation. first serious guy, mutual break up, confusing friendship, etc etc. and you know what? it ended up being the messiest on and off "thing" for the next year and a half. trying to be friends so soon after breaking up, whether mutual or not is tough. i can't just tell you to stop talking to him because that won't happen, you dont want to, but it will be tough. you can't just forget feelings for each other because it was serious, and especially cos it was your first. he's confused, you must be confused, you just need to ride it out.. it won't be easy but just be as honest as you can and hope he can do the same. hope it helps.0
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