I met this girl at work and for the first time since my break up I honestly felt she was the one for me. She told me she liked me and we started seeing each other. One day after we had sex she told me she had a boyfriend.
We would still see each other but nothing sexual happened we would maybe kiss but nothing more. She said she wants me in her life after I help her through hard times as a friend and she didn't want to break up with her boyfriend. I have since told her we can't be friends and I need to move on as I like her. She knows exactly how I feel.
Over a week has passed and since my text to her we have not spoken. I can't stop thinking about her. She is an attractive girl and gets a lot of attention from guys. I know the right thing to do is cut her off but I am finding it extremely hard. What should I do? I have an urge to text her again even when I cut her off. I try and think what am I going to gain from texting. Please help.
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Maintain your self-control by avoiding her.
I know this girl is pretty and you two get along well, but you need to tell yourself exactly what you just told everyone else: she lied to you and you need to move on.
You continue to like her a lot because she made you feel happy and wanted. You want to retrieve the feelings she gave to you again... and so you have a hard time letting go.
You need to realise that there is another beautiful girl out there who can make you feel what she made you feel. You just got to wait and maintain that self-control.
I believe you can do that, since you had the guts to straight-up tell her that you intended to cut her out of your life and move on.0