Anyway, I joined a dating site more to see what was about and to get into the idea of finding someone new.
I started chatting to a local girl who spoke of all sorts of sexual stuff in a funny sort of way and what not... and then on a normal level when she saw I was not after random sex.
we chatted quite a bit.. I got to liking her and got the odd pic off her. .. clothed...
I told her I liked her but never heard anything back on that front. Her retort would be 'I am still talking to you aren't I.'
she is a bit hard to try to meet just for a chat... I think very shy... as when I did met her briefly at a local park... she was clearly shy and I gave her a small gift, which she later said she always finds hard to receive presents but thanked me for it.
she knows I am still married and eventually said... a relationship or conversation about one would not take place until I left my wife.
She said at one point was I just looking for a relationship to jump into, as in a ready made family home with another female... this is not the case! She has 4 children which is not a light undertaking for me
Anyway... on a female front... would you treat the situation the same? Is she being cautious because of a previous problem? She is not cold... she is matter of fact tho and blunt with it... can any females gather if she is likely to want something beyond... I came off the dating site as I think I have found something I want.
- she will want to try a relationship.
- it is typically a polite let down.
- no, it seems unlikely she will want to try a relationship
- you have picked a tough cookie here. but wort it
- you have picked a tough cookie here. run run run
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She does not want to entertain the idea of dating you or creating a life with you while you are married to your wife. In stating this, I am assuming she does not want to influence you to end your marriage by expressing her interest in you.
The fact that you are ardently considering something more with this woman, a woman whom you've known shortly, highlights your naivety and inexperience in dating and relationships, in my view.
Now, by no means am I judging you for wanting to end your marriage. I do not know your from Adam, or what you have endured in your marriage. I will, however, suggest that you respect and focus on your relationship with your wife until it comes to an end, or not. For the manner in which you treat her will have a significant impact on your son for years and years to come.