So during my sophomore year I had Culinary arts with this guy and we never talked or we didn't even realize each other. Until when our teacher retired because she had family problems. So then all the culinary groups were messed up and we were being moved to other teachers. Right then I was joined in his class we actually had a conversation for a while. Then I guess we started to flirt. Well I didn't I just thought of him as a classmate, but I don't know how he felt about me. Then after a while it happened so fast I don't even think it was a while ago. But he started to give me some hints as in he flirted with me as I was getting materials for my group, his posture was tall, he would be the first one to start a conversation with me, and his kitchen group acted really different around me. And I even knew some of his kitchen group. Also, there was this other time where our teacher wanted a huge group picture of us and I went all the way in the back so that I wouldn't be able to get in the picture, but then he made a gesture where he had an excuse to stand right next to me. Plus he even told his friend over to come stand next to him which was really weird. Then when she started to take the picture, she couldn't fit all the people in so she told us to squish together so we did and it turned out really awkward. So what I realized was that his body posture was open towards me and his right hand was near my butt. But I don't know if he was actually playing with me or not. But on my last day of school I wanted to tell him the truth and ask him some questions but then he like rejected and he told me he had to go and give someone a ride home. So I've done mostly everything to get over him and forgot him. And what I've done isn't working for me. What do I do? Also I usually dont look back at the boys I like but this one I did. Someone help mee!!
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Some find flirting, fun even if it doesn't lead anywhere, its fun to have the attention and give the attention. At the end he either was scared that it might of become more or just really was a flirt-a-ton. Next time if you do like the guy and he does flirt but never really makes the first move to ask you out, take the step yourself, there's nothing wrong with that at all IMO. there's plenty of guys (including myself) that are great conversationalist and flirt well but have a hard time transitioning from there.
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