The last 2 girls I have dated have started and ended the same way... things are great in the beginning until I start to care about them to the point where I start to wonder why they hide their phone while texting. Regrettably I checked each of these girl's phones/text messages and each time my suspicions were proven justified and found that they were talking to other guys and/or lying to me about what they did on certain nights.
I know it's a 100% invasion of privacy and I truly regret doing it... but should I? I mean if they are not honest or committed enough to me shouldn't I be relieved that I found what I found? Or does every new relationship have these things going on in background and ultimately my insecurities, paranoia and desire to find something doomed each relationship
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Never check a girl's phone, confront her and ask but don't do it behind her back or tell the guy you think she's talking to that you know he is and depending on his reaction then you're right.1