For me when it comes to an ex there is zero contact. It doesn't matter if the relationship ended poorly, on a positive note, or mutually. We can't be friends and the chances of us ever hanging out again are zero. Yeah I know that sounds harsh, but that's the way I choose to life. What about everyone else?
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I agree with you, I find it weird when the other party even suggests being friends. I just think 'are you out of your mind'. I have enough friends, why should I make the effort of dealing with things and turning you into a friend. There is a history and some baggage, why bother seeing that every day. I personally think, even if the break up is on a positive note.. there is always an underlying emotion. In my case, I've had a guy say he can't commit but wants to remain friends. What kind of an idiot does that! Either way, I don't feel the need to be friends and I am definitely not curious about what they are up to. But I do know several people who remain friends with their exes, I just think thats unnecessarily complicating life0