Anyway, my anger regarding this almost turned to hate. I try not to judge one's finances, but after A YEAR, I just snapped. This demeaning behaviour of mine led to him breaking up with me. I think I may have wanted that subconsciously at first, but after a few weeks I just wanted my best friend back. After the 'break up', I didn't contact him for a month (classic rule) . Well, he was still super angry and upset the second month and we just talked by phone once a week, which didn't go very well.
Now, into the third month, he will only text me until he is SURE I improved my behaviour because I behaved like a 'crazy psycho'. I am trying to convince him to talk by Skype, but he is so distant (not that I blame him because he likely has trust issues). He says to text about 'new topics' and yet he always brings uo boundaries and talks about 'going. with the flow'. Saying things should be natural; not artificial. So, he just contradicts his own words. Wth?
What's the male mind during this time like? What approach should I use to make him comfortable again? Constructive advice please!