So we rushed into things, and we have been dating for 4 months but the first month everything was fine I was happy and I felt like he was a gift to me for all the A hole guys I've dealt with. So we agreed that he would move in with me... well now he is here and he gets on my nerves to no end. Everything he does everything he says annoys me. I don't want him touching me half the time, nor do I want to cuddle in bed with him. I feel so bad because he does really love me and he doesn't feel that way about me? I don't know when I started feeling this way but I do know why I feel this way. And its hard enough that he lives with me so im going to have to kick him out. And Im not to sure that he has anywhere to go. But I just can't stand him anymore.
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Being it has only '4 months' and counting, sweetie, the best thing you can do to end the madness Is---Sit him down and face him 'Down' with what you are feeling.
Open lines of convo are one of the most important factors in any new or old relationship. And by jumping the gun by letting him move in lock, stock and barrel, now you have to do the most humane and mild manner of a motion of getting him Out like a bat out of hell.
Explain to him that you don't think this is working and that you miss your space, your privacy. He will most likely have a broken nose, a broken heart, but it is better to let him know where you stand Now than to let it go any further, having it fly South later on, making it even more eerie And Inevitable That------He may not be the right Prince charming for you.
Good luck. xx0
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