I'm in highschool and broke up with my ex- boyfriend 2 months ago after dating for a year. I broke up with him after a series of misunderstandings. I did it on the phone instead of in person because I was pissed. My ex has refused to talk to me or acknowledge me since we broke up. I tried to have a couple of talks after the breakup to get closure but we ended up arguing. After that, I just decided to do No Contact too and have been ignoring him for the past several weeks too. Is the fact he's still ignoring me mean he's still hurt and may still have feelings for me? He told people after the break up how hurt he was. Whose place is it to break the No Contact rule? Is it worth it to try and approach him again?
Most Helpful Guy
You don't break the no contact rule. That's why it's called NO contact. All you're going to do is just keep hurting yourself and causing unnecessary pain and confusion.
Rule #1: Never deal with ex's.0
Most Helpful Girl
What misunderstandings? He cheated, he was a player, he treated you badly etc? You don't break the no contact rule you keep your ex in the past and you do not contact them whatsoever. My ex broke up with me 7 months and and it has been 7 months since he and I have talked. It was pretty much because he was afraid to commitment, and didn't know what a relationship was and I couldn't teach it to him, I am no boy's therapist. My ex did to me in person but I'm all healed. If he misses you he'll contact you don't go chasing him and making yourself look desperate trust me. He'll move on it might takes it might take months but he will move on. My ex and I fell out of love with each other and I lost feelings for him over time. Him ignoring you could mean he is hurt or he wants you to chase him. And if he wants to talk to you he will, don't make yourself look bad, let him come to you don't chase him.0
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