Most Helpful Girl
No its not shallow. Its solely based on emotional issues. Dating someone with OCD i imagine is hard. Even though they can't help it. Is she putting an effort in helping herself, or actually talking to you when you accidentally do something that triggers her disorder. Is she showing the least bit of consideration? If not then, id leave. If she isn't putting an effort to better the relationship, it'll never get any better. Youve done your part. You could try to talk to her again, really a heart to heart. If she shows that she's not going to be understanding as you are with her , leave. A relationship without communication, and compromising is a ticket to nowhere.
Most Helpful Guy
Not shallow if she actually yells at you.