so i dated this guy, he is divorced (in the process of) and my direct superior. before i get any answers of 'you get what you ask for', i would like to state i want mature answers and yeah we all make mistakes. but while we dated, he kept it secret. i'm not sure what's more hurtful. Is it more hurtful he kept our relationship secret and didn't update his status? Or is it more hurtful he was seeing another girl while he was seeing me. long story short, I quit the job. his friends seemed nice pitying me like an ugly abandoned pup. I sometimes wonder if karma ever will pay his ass a visit because he would talk about me behind my back and almost got me fired at my job. How exactly would you get over this situation? I felt humiliated, ashamed, hurt and angered.
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For Karma to work, you must forgive and let nature run its course.
Him talking behind your back and he being in an affair while married at the same time, he was dating an employee makes for a busy boy.
If his talking about you is affecting your work with your new employer, you can file a complaint about him with the regulating employment agency and he will go on point. If he has dated another employee, then the wind has just been knocked out of his sails and he will be packing his panties to look for another job.1