My boyfriend keeps making excuses, picking fights, and an overall ass, then he takes off and comes home at 3 am or so. I realize that its shenanigans, i realize enough is enough, but how do you cut someone off because they're no longer good for you? I have a really hard time because it just hurts my feelings. I wannt to love him forever even though I know i have to let him go.
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what you need to do is to get rid of your emotional connection that isn't there (you believe it's there and you hope he gets the way you wanted) and start thinking about why you shouldn't be with him.
then you keep those things in mind till you believe that your choice is the right one. love can also be controlled in your brain (if it's strong you can't put it down). if the person you loved doesn't appear in him anymore you should realize that this is not the person you love. tell him he has changed and get some space0