We got drunk that night and kissed a lot and I remember hugging him and telling him how cute he I thought he was and how I really liked him. He kept kissing my forehead and being really sweet, making sure I was okay. We went to sleep and when I woke up we were spooning, which we've never done before. We had actually only kissed once before this party. So I felt like we were a lot closer after that night. On the way home he told me I was adorable a couple times and every time he looked at me it was like he really meant it. He was being so sweet. Then he mentioned a couple things he wanted us to go do together soon and he told me he was planning to get me something really nice for my birthday which is coming up.
For the next 3 days everything was fine. He still texted me everyday like normal and then it started to change. He quit talking to me. It was like he didn't want to see me at all. I figured he was just stressed cause he works 2 jobs and goes to school, but I kept seeing things on facebook, instagram, etc showing him partying and drinking a lot. For the past 3 weeks I've been trying to get him to meet with me and tell me what's going on. At the same time I have been giving him space though.
Anyway, I finally told him I needed answers and he came by my house and we talked. At first he just apologized for being too busy to talk. Then I told him I wanted the real reason and he said "I'm just not really into the whole dating thing right now." I was speechless. He had been telling all his friends about me, pursuing me, and everything seemed fine.