Now, in that week that we talked, we never had sex, but I did sleep with her (literally sleeping) twice. The second time was Monday night/Tuesday morning. She told me today (Wednesday), at around noon (first time talking to her since I left for work after waking up Tuesday morning) that she wanted to stop seeing each other and be friends. I asked her if she'd be willing to give it another go once she feels that she's ready. She said, "Yes, maybe when I'm ready we can try again, but that she probably won't be ready for a long while."
She did say it was nothing personal, but I am having a hard time believing that it's nothing personal. On top of that, I definitely think it will be a bit awkward
Oh, and in the past week... out of all of our co-workers and friends that new that we were talking (only a select few since we didn't want our managers finding out) they knew because she was the one that told them. I didn't tell a single person that we were talking.
Do you think I should take it personally or not?
- Yes, it was personal, and no, it won't be awkward.
- Yes, it was personal, and yes, it will be awkward.
- No, it wasn't personal, and no, it won't be awkward.
- No, it wasn't personal, and yes, it will be awkward.
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Depending on how her last relationship ended and for how long they were together
don't take it personally, sometimes we do need to take times out and remember who we are and what we like.
after being in a relationship myself for 5 years (on and off) I do need time myself to be find me and do the things I want and make myself happy before I can let anyone in, love them and be someone's girlfriend. (and that was over a year ago)
but she said straight out that she would try when she is ready.. Most girls don't say that unless they do actually want to
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