I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He was laid off a couple of months before we started dating. It didn't bother me at the time. 1.5 years later, he's still unemployed and not doing much to change that. Our relationship is great and the only issue is his unemployment. This means that he's more defensive as time goes on because of his ego and he sometimes is unnecessarily testy because of that. It also means that I pay for everything and we can't really plan a concrete future together because his finances aren't stable. I hate to be that girl who leaves because of money, but I can't support us both forever and I have given him 1.5 years already without nagging about the job. How long do I have to give him? It just feels so wrong to dump someone because they're broke.
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its not bitchy its smart. you should never have begun dating him in the first place, you knew he had no job. he's lazy unmotivated AND has a nerve to be testy and egotistical on top of that too? omg!!! if you are gonna be dating a broke nigga he better be the most romantic seductive man ever, not making you pay for everything and having an attitude too. there is nothing wrong with judging a guy based on money. I bet he wouldn't be dating you if you were broke, then he wouldn't have anyone to support him (think about that). 2 broke people won't work unless welfare is involved bc someone has to pay for the other one.0