am the first guy who she ever dated to be be there for her during Valentine's Day had to stay outside in the cold snow just too give her a v day gift i have all ways have been there for my ex am the only guy she dated not to ask for nude pics or to treat her like she's just a sex object or too buy her any gift what so ever so why will she not meet me so i can get closure? sorry for any spelling errors its been a while
sorry for any errors very busy n its been awhile
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It's a fresh break up, her war wounds are still being licked and Now being bandaged by a Rebound Robert who just happen to be there at the right time, maybe to you Not at the Right moment, however, it is what is... for now anyways...
I feel that her family should have stayed out of it, not gotten involved as they did. You both are old enough to be in a relationship without making it a family affair. But she allowed it, she let them interject, which is why there is not much you can do right now.
Stay at arm's length for now. Get on with your own life, do some serious soul searching. You have a few gashes you need to heal yourself and by harping on the past and comparing him to you or how she feels with him and What she feels for you and even What you did in the past with your goods and goodies, is not going to make her come back any faster.
However, to be fair, for I have seen it myself a million times over, when they get fed up with what is going on in their not so happy love nest, they eventually wise up, fly the coup and often come back To----Where the heart is at home.
She has to see it for herself, you can't make her see it. Yes, it would pain her too much if she took even a glimpse of you right now, and with them being like this cult who has this spell over her and this guy that just came out of nowhere for her to try and replace you with, nothing is going to happen this very minute and the only thing you can do is either wait it out and hope for the best or move on and get on with your own life and find someone who isn't always going to be running home to mommy and daddy every time there is trouble in paradise.
There is two sides to the coin in your scenario... Bottom line with her, I believe, Blood is thicker than water and that may never change...
Good luck. xx1
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