Me and my gf broke up after 7 years, around 2 months ago. She told me she wasn't in love with me anymore and the spark had gone for her. We left it for about a month and then she came back telling me she's been missing me and wants to see how things go and so we did, First they were going great and after a week i decided to sask what we actually were. This pushed her away and she told me she had been forcing it and her feelings haven't really changed still. We tried for another week and during this time she would tell me one thing like she really believes were meant to be but after a couple days she would then take it back and doubt our relationship again. I finally couldn't take it no more so i told her to make a decision and either be all in and try or were done for good. She chose to leave. we've spoken a few times since and every time she keeps saying she just needs space and who knows what could happen, Things like distance can make the heart grow founder.. I know she has a lot going on in her life right now and i tried to show her that i could help but she said she doesn't want to bring me into her troubles and needs to figure things out by herself. She also said we shouldn't talk but she messaged me 1st the other day and we ended up talking all day even after that and saying we shouldn't have talked she again text me very briefly the next day.. Im just so confused and don't understand whats going on or what i should be doing anymore?
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Needing space means they need distance from you, to gather their thoughts, so they can decide if they want be in the relationship or not, the best thing to do as she's having space, is use the opportunity to have your space
To meditate on the relationship too, dont use that time mopeing about and wondering, take advantage of that time for yourself, good luck2
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