- yes, it's stupid
- no, it's not stupid
- it depends (elaborate?)
Most Helpful Guy
It's not stupid. A relationship is about equal respect. You both must give 100% to it or don't even bother. It is unfair, and if it is causing you so much distress then it is just not good for you in general.
Move on to someone that will try
Most Helpful Girl
Why waste your valuable time on someone who from what sounds like isn't that committed to you? I know i wouldn't. If he really loved and cared for you, he'd tell everyone y'all are together and not be hiding things. My bf was doing that at first but i told him i was leaving bc of said reasons and he cut the shit real quick. You need to tell your man what's on your mind. Put your foot down girl!