My ex bf and I still talk even after are breakup.. and recently I was trying to get an answer from him and instead of him listening he will say will you just stop it already.. I dnt care to talk about it because it's a waste of my time.. to me i was so frustrated because it wld mean a lot to me if he helped give me a peace of mind. Why do guys shut down?
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We are ready to fight , hit each other , even go till level of bleeding or killing , but when it comes to maintaining relationship , or talking about things, out brains says , you are fucked up , you cannot win and thus we do the same what we do in a battle arena so we do not get killed , 'We run away'.0