i ended up calling the next morning... he asked who it was i said my name he then said "what is it".. i said "can you call me back on my phone?" he said "why?" i said "i just want to talk".. he said about what? i said "anything"... he said "i dont want to talk" & hung up.. but then he called me like 3 mins later.(i didn't expect this) we stayed on the phone for hours.. this time i didn't cry or beg... we spoke about so many things.. we laughed and joked. since we break up he has maintained no chance of rela. or anything romantic between us... but after we were on the phone he started making sexual advances.. first as a joke but i started saying no way (which i meant) & he became serious, we had to see each other to return stuff this weekend & at first he said he’d just drop it off and leave.. then we agreed to hang out one last time…then when i “Acted crazy” he completely said he isn’t even open to that…but by the end of the conversation he wanted to have sex it went from one last time to wanting to have casual sex... i know sex doesn't mean anything in the in the grand schemes of rekindling a rela. so kept saying no.. b/c honestly I’m still inlove with him and he isn't with me anymore & i know how hurt.
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly, stop talking to this guy. It really looks like your hurting and he's just toying with you for the possibility of free casual sex with no commitment. Sounds like his only interest in you from this point on is sex and that would be way to painful for you in your state.
You just have to get over him and then it won't hurt so bad. One day at a time and don't think about him having sex with anyone, it's not your concern now.
I had the hardest time with this concept when my girl broke up with me and got in a relation ship 2 days later. But it gets better :)
Most Helpful Girl
He sounds like a disgusting human being.
He doesn't want a relationship with you. He knows you do want that. He then uses your feelings for him to try and make you have sex with him - by threatening to sleep with someone else.
Just cut him off. I know its hard and I know you're hurting, but you need no contact so you can move on.
Spend time with your friends and family. Immerse yourself in hobbies. Let go of him and move on.