Most Helpful Guy
He needs to come to you if he broke up. I'm doing this now, I got verbally abused that I said we're done. She came back a few days later and started treating me like trash before we even begun to start getting things on track, I brought it up and boom she goes "NOW WE'RE DONE DELETE ME FROM YOUR LIFE"
So I've not spoke to her for almost a week. Bottom line if they broke your heart they need to come back and make the case. You just need to protect you. You are a girl which means you have more power than you think in finding a guy lol.
No contact isn't so much about game playing as it is about getting right with yourself and self introspection.
Just be careful especially if you were the one constantly making effort as I was [he'll either be gone for good because he never cared like mine probably is... Or he'll be like Oh s* learnfromyou was awesome I messed it up and start making an effort]
The more you engage with someone that left you the more they get an ego boost and maintain control.
Most Helpful Girl
You could have continued living your life in NC without actually breaking up with him. That would've been wiser. If someone wants space, we should never refuse it. That's what create problems in relationships. And yes NC works. It brings out the best in both partners.