I am getting married in 3 months, and my boyfriend's friend told me after they have returned from a business trip that they usually go to a Asian massage parlor at the end of each week. I goggled what these places are like and i found that it's a place for erotic massages.
I did further research and watched some videos of what happens behind the doors, and i can say i am totally repulsed right now. They are nothing more than brothels i also found a site where men leave these kinds of reviews after they have been serviced and all have been saying that it's very erotic according to their descriptions. These places provide table showers and a massage with a butt play followed by a handjob.
To me this seems like a hardcore brothel, it's obvious not a regular massage parlor otherwise they would be covered with a towel and there would be no intimate touching. I just realized my boyfriend is seeing actual hookers behind my back.
I come to the conclusion that i can't marry a guy like that, i honestly want to cheat on him right now, how should i announce this to my family?
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You should ask him first. I don't know why that friend of his would lie, but there is a possibility that he is. I'm surprised you haven't confronted him yet because if someone told me that about my boyfriend the first thing I'd do would be to scream at him hahaha.
If it turns out to be true and you end the relationship you can choose how much of the truth want to reveal to your family. Basically, it's enough to just tell them that there are serious reasons why you cannot see a future with this man. But you can also tell them the whole truth if you're comfortable with that.0