my girlfriend recently dumped me because i crashed her car into a dumpster in a burger king parking lot.
but here's the thing she forced me to borrow her car since i don't have my own and she was embarrassed about having a boyfriend who doesn't drive.
so one night me and my friend norm were out buying some beers and we stopped in at burger king and we were goofing off a bit in the car having a food fight and basically when push came to shove i accidentally veered to the side and there was this dumpster i crashed into. both headlights smashed, fender came off, hood crumpled.
i call my girlfriend up, she screamed at me, then cried, and said we were done.
what i want to know is it my fault or hers? she forced me to drive cause she said a guy without a car is a bum so does she really have a right to be mad and dump me?
Most Helpful Guy
`i call my girlfriend up, she screamed at me, then cried, and said we were done.`
-> well, it was the best thing to do by calling her first, because in an other scenario she would have to find out for herself by you not telling her and that might have even created a even bigger scene and you would have earned some more damage. BUT...
-> you are paying off your depts and that is the right thing to do, probably you suggested it yourself, so that gives you a feather upon your hat for starters, making a good impression by handling responsibel after such events and the parents will respect that by in any given conversation comming from her side , they will defend you in such conversations ;-)
But to answer your question: nore you or she is wrong, that`s it! Well because she forced you and you agreed by doing so, she made a choice and so did you, both cases have could been the total opposite right? And then nobody was feeling bad, sad, or angry... it`s just a phase she is going trough, don`t take it to personally, she is just like that, that is how she reacts and deals with such situations, she should mature up, a car that is wrecked or a guy in the hospital, what whould be worse?
Shalom Lech `go in peace my brother`, you`ll make it, trust me ;-)0