Most Helpful Guy
Yes you should let him go thats something that you just dont do and he crossed the line big time get rid of the guy
Most Helpful Girl
I'm so sorry that you're being used that way. This is the single most degrading thing I've read in a long time and it honestly really depressed me. I don't know you but I know you deserve so much more than that. I understand your hesitation because of the time you already have together but would you rather keep going down a path to destruction until one day you wake up and realize the best years of your life are gone? Or would you rather get out of a sloppy relationship while you still can and find someone who will give you the passion and romance you deserve?
What you've described here is a level of jackassery I scarcely knew existed until I read your post. I hope for your sake you leave that pig.