So I got raped (not 4 the 1st time either) and my bf broke up w me? Why? He acted like it was my fault and like I didn't try to stop it or something. I mean, he didn't even tried to help me through it! WTF? What did I do wrong? Is it my fault?
Most Helpful Guy
Ummm well I know people will bitch at me because every girl says it's never the girls fault but I am going to say a example is one of my cousins who has been raped about 3-4 times now and I say at least two were her fault. She would basically get drunk in a poor neighborhood go outside at like 1-2AM with no friends and start walking around the streets and into more poor neighborhoods and walk into the parks with a tiny dress on to the point where you can see her ass while she's just standing straight. Now she knew these were bad neighborhoods she knew she shouldn't be walking around alone but choose to do it anyways. So I sit here and say well that was clearly her fault for being such a idiot but of course a lot of people will disagree with me on that one.
I mean like I don't put the full full blame onto them of course the guy doing it it's his fault as well but normally there are a lot of times where the girl makes herself way more of a target and just basically asks for it in my eyes. If you're going to walk around half naked in a ghetto area at 1-2AM at night in a park all alone I just don't see what kinda person in the right mind thinks that's a good idea.5
Most Helpful Girl
Even if a woman puts herself in a vulnerable situation they are still not to blame, a person who commits a crime is 100% to blame for their own actions, women have to be responsible for protecting themselves and never to put themselves in a situation which could lead to rape, but sometimes our own judgment of a situation can be wrong, but that doesn't mean you should be punished or lead to believe its your fault, all you are responsible for is putting yourself in a situation, that maybe you shouldnt, but not for the act happening to you, the person committing the act made his own choice to take advantage of the situation or your vulnerability so he is ttotally to blame, i agtee with @bearanswers1