Most Helpful Guy
This often happens where a person cheats. They can't accept responsibility for their actions and try lay the blame on the injured partner. My ex-wife did exactly the same.
There is nobody else to blame for his lack of character.
Kick him into the long grass where the snake belongs. Don't look back.
Don't keep quiet either, tell everybody you know what he did. You must shine a light on people who cheat. Otherwise they just keep going and making us all fools until the truth comes out. It nearly always does so get even.
Most Helpful Girl
listen to what the dudes said (y)